Self-Love Spell Song

The Self-Love Spell Song was created to direct loving, nurturing energy inward and strengthen the relationship you have with yourself. This working focuses on self-worth, confidence, acceptance, compassion, and recognizing your own value without needing that validation to come from somewhere else. The song itself is the spell, using the lyrics, intention, rhythm, and repetition to raise and direct that energy toward you.

This spell song can be used as a stand-alone working, or it can be incorporated into The Ritual Song Set. When using the full set, play it after “Energy Raised and Held” and before “Spellcasting.” The energy you've already raised can then be directed specifically toward yourself and the intention of strengthening self-love before continuing with the remainder of your ritual.

You don't need rose quartz, pink candles, roses, mirrors, herbs, or any of the other tools commonly associated with self-love work. You can simply listen, sing along if you'd like, focus on yourself, and allow the words of the song to become the working. If you already have a self-love ritual you enjoy, you can absolutely incorporate the song alongside your usual tools and practices.

These spell songs were created with accessibility in mind. They're especially useful for disabled witches, broom-closet witches, witches who can't safely use candles or smoke, witches who struggle with speaking or remembering incantations, or anyone who sometimes doesn't have the physical or mental energy for an elaborate ritual. And sometimes loving yourself is already hard enough without having to sit there and figure out the perfect damn words for a spell.

Use it through headphones, sing along, meditate with it, play it while looking into a mirror, incorporate it into a larger self-love ritual, or use it entirely on its own. The song is the spell. Your intention turns that love toward yourself.